Black Sisters Who Are You?

When I ask the question above, before you answer make sure you speak from what makes you, (your name).  I ask, what are you passionate about or what are your goals?  If you don’t know what your purpose is, what completes you, and where you are headed, you can’t be intentional about it. Do me a favor, if you haven’t done so already, learn your true worth Queen, know who will encourage you to be your best at all times.  The days of your loyalty to ignorance are passed.  If that man is not husband material now he won’t be later, if that woman doesn’t respect her-self or your advancement in life, she’ll pull you down too.  I love each of you, I see the strength in you, as a Black woman you are fighting several wars, only you can conquer.  Do not apologize for wanting the best out of your man or demanding it.  Don’t apologize for expressing your thoughts; release the challenges of being black and a woman in this country we call America. Elephant is addressed!

We have a black president with a strong black wife.  We have a model black business woman in Oprah.  Black women are still not valued as they should be in America.   As  leaders this has much to do with us, black men.  We must respect our women.  I will address the men later.  Women, you are to require respect from a man.  I advise you to stop your ignorance on the truth of nature and nurture.  I use the word ignorance because the root word is the root of your problem.  You ignore the truth that your men have to be respectful, husband-worthy men at the meet (nature).  The truth is you teach us how to treat you; hence you HELP (nurture) us to become better men!

Our Beautiful Black Queens

Black Queen, I speak to you because like me, we deal with things unimaginable on a daily basis because the sun gave our skin a kiss.  I wish that we as black men did not put more on you than you can handle.  For the survival of the black family, please pass on the developed boys, they do not fit your afore passion and life goals, of course unless you aspire to have a full-grown boys mentoring program.  If anyone knows how to respond to oppression and mental warfare it is you my strong sisters.  The man that can bring intellectual power to your pillow talks is the ones that will help cure our hurting black youth.  I agree, men should be more accountable, does that mean you should lower your standards or even marry YOURSELF (?).  You are selfish; your instant pleasure should not be worth our lasting pain.

I need you courageous enough to stop the cycle. I need you to aspire to change your Child’s circumstances from that of yours.  If he is not for it, you look somewhere else for it.  Seriously look around, are we not overdue?  If he doesn’t take care of his other children, actually wait, why is he even in consideration?!  If he looks and talk at you like an object how would that advantage your offspring?